This ampampamp34parenting relationshipampampamp34 book is based on the authors experiences in leading more than 2000 workshops with new and expectant dads to discuss parenting in a nonthreatening environment. In it Hogan Hilling and Jesse Jayne Rutherford offer thoughtful insights into what makes dads behave the way they do.ampampamp160The Modern Moms Guide to Dadsampampamp160draws on what Hilling has learned from working with dads and moms for more than fifteen years. He explains to modern moms what their husbands are really thinking about pregnancy parenting and marriage and he teaches them how to get their husbands more involved with the kids and get some relaxation for themselves while keeping the peace in their marriages.